Kids Corner with Dr. S 

 

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Welcome to my blog! I am Dr. Lauretta Stombaugh (Dr. S) and I have been part of the Hendersonville Pediatrics family for over 8 years. I have decided to share this blog because I feel that it is vital for parents and caregivers to be well-informed as well as have access to solid, accurate medical information. Your children are our children and we take pride in the excellent care we provide here at Hendersonville Pediatrics. Please join me monthly (or every two weeks if my four kids allow me time to write!) and I will in turn provide interesting, helpful and maybe even comical blogs. Please share a link to my blog! Ready, set, go!!

My new book, Let Them Climb, is available through Amazon!

Parenting can be challenging, blissful, confusing and exciting. It is an ever changing path, filled with unexpected successes and unwelcome struggles. My book takes you on a genuine, introspective journey through my own parenting experiences.  One of the big messages is to create safe spaces for your children to gain confidence then let the ropes loose and allow them to climb. Be mindful, engaging and true to yourself as a parent.

 

The day to day happenings, are challenging while you are living them and beautiful in their own way when you look back on them.

 

    Popcorn in the cushions. Writings on the wall. Rock art on your car. Someday we will be wondering how we arrived at a place without bedtime charts, without giggling in between our walls, with a full night’s sleep and accessible outlets. The challenge is being mindful of the clock ticking. Your reaction to the rock art, the writings on the wall and the popcorn in the cushions, indirectly shape your child’s self-worth. These day to day happenings are little experiences that make a big footprint on your child’s self-esteem. How you react to these little things does not go unnoticed. Although, maybe unconciously, your littles are paying attention. They form their opinions about the world and themselves based on your reactions to the world and yourself. The tiny things do matter and if you view them from that perspective you can use them as opportunities. Be conscious about creating ideals of perfection with respect to sports, academics or body image. It starts young. Encourage them to “work hard and play hard”, but that the goal is not to be “the best”. I have seen that backfire many times in families I have worked with. There’s a fine line and I have been on it myself. We all want the best for our children. We all want them to succeed. Find the beauty in the little things. Find the big lessons. Creating a solid self-esteem in my own kids and my patients is one of my foremost goals. Day to day, I encounter bullying, childhood trauma, struggling families. I’m witness to balancing acts with working parents on one end, needy children on the other, and everyone trying to reach “the” happy spot. Some of us always teeter on what is demanded of us and what we truly need to experience happiness.

The key is recognizing this and keeping it real.

Dr.S